This is something I wrote to a member of my family as I wrote it I found it catalytic and healing as I went along.
“I have been thinking in the memories of Christine hehe and looking back at my mum and dad and how I used to get upset with my mum and dad when they were 'telling what to do' as you get older and you learn about life you see things in a different light. I never thought my mum loved me but I was wrong she did very much. We as young people only see the telling off but do not have the insight to see what really is going on.
Our parents love us very much and can see the paths we take and fear for us and sometimes say and do the wrong things we react the only way we know. It’s all the lessons in life and we realize at certain points in our life that it is not always the way we see it; at that moment when we are in it. I guess what I am saying is mum and dad does love you very much and are full of emotions, maybe do not go about it the right way we are all on a learning curve in life.”
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Yes .... children do not come with an instruction manual .... it is a learning process every single minute of each day!
ReplyDeleteTell me about it, I have now backed away from my younger nephew Glen my Intervention has not worked and backfired on me with a message from Glen full of anger.
ReplyDeleteI had to talk to Terri about it and then got a phone call from my brother telling to back off as Glen just phoned his mother telling her off which she does not need and it has esculated and its not a good situation at the moment. So Aunty Christine is Backing off and will let go. Glen will do what he wants and will not listen even to his dad.